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Can I Tell You...about my Spring / Summer 2024 Collection featured in Vogue Philippines.

Rafe Totengco

Rafé Totengco’s Latest Collection Has The Sentiments Of A Sweet Escape

written by Chelsea Sarabia for Vogue Philippines

For his Spring/Summer 2024 collection, bag designer Rafé Totengco presents glistening miniaudières swept over North Fork shores, celebrating femininity, vibrance, sunlight, and the season.

AYA Frame Clutch in apricot raffia crochet.

For a summer away from New York City, it might seem like there’s no better destination than the Hamptons. If it were up to Rafé Totengco, however, he’d tell you that being there would feel as if you hadn’t even left Manhattan. “I mean, it really is a fabulous location,” he says, but “I’m just not there.” On the weekends, the Rafé New York designer would rather be on the peninsula opposite the Hamptons, up in the North Fork. “I swear to you, your trip will feel so different if you just go away for two days. Just come out,” he urges, reenacting the convincing he had to do to get a few of his friends to come and visit. “Just come and see it for what it is, and you’ll see. You’ll come back.”

AYESHA Small Tote Crossbody in beige raffia crochet.

With the locale’s sprawling vineyards, lush gardens, and secluded beaches at every turn, it seems that taking the road less traveled would have you reap the most rewards. “You could kind of call it a bucolic scene or state of mind. I mean, every time I go there for the weekend, as soon as I cross this threshold, immediately, [my] stress level goes like whoosh.”

AYESHA Small Tote Crossbody in multi-color raffia crochet.

Totengco spends every weekend in the North Fork; it’s become something of a necessity for the designer. “Having lived in the city for so long, you need that escape. For me, it’s like, I need that balance,” he tells Vogue Philippines.“I mean, I used to love being in the city every weekend. But now that I’m able to go away, I look for it. I need it.” 

ROSIE Draped Clutch in ivory fine abaca.

He knew it would inspire his next collection as the vases in his home seemed to overflow with the fan shells he would collect on each of his visits. In such an idyllic setting, it was hard not to find beauty everywhere you went, says the designer. “I take my mom and my husband from Thursday night on. It really is our happy place. I kind of wanted to be able to share that happiness—of the location, of the moment, of the feeling.”

ELIZA Shoulder bag in silver with crystal rhinestones.

Totengco is the kind of designer who never stops designing, finding inspiration in just about anything. The collection is largely informed by the details you might ignore in passing: the North Fork’s pebbly beaches, fresh flowers from the local farmer’s market, the frequent bachelorette parties hosted in the vineyards. “You see these girls all dressed up, but [because] it’s so windy and it’s so natural,” he shares. “They’re all dressed, but it’s not, like, super fancy. There’s a casualness to it all.” 

BERNA Half Moon Clutch in fuchsia with an embroidered Bird of Paradise flower.


He approaches his clutches the same way; each piece in the collection is meticulous in its beadwork and craftsmanship, but still conveys something of a sense of ease through its design. “There’s a sequined clutch that I did—[there’s] no way that can be done by machine. When you see it, you see that each sequin is individually stitched into place,” he explains. “And yet, when you look at it [from afar], it’s not a very complicated bag. It’s a frame clutch, done. But it exudes so much femininity and color and vibrance… It catches the light. It reflects sunlight. [This bag] is a way to celebrate light and the season.” 

MEAGAN Minaudière in mint shell inlay.

That same effortlessness is evident in Totengco’s campaign images, starring model Hannah Locsin and photographed by Martin Romero. That shoot day, it would be the three of them in the designer’s car, driving around until they stumbled upon a scenic patch of land fitting for the collection—something not at all difficult to find in the area. “The whole day was just so relaxed,” Totengco recalls. “We shot a lot in one day, but it didn’t seem like it. It felt like we weren’t even rushing. Somehow, there was just this ease into the company.” 

BERNA Half Moon Clutch with a blue and white Chinoiserie embroidered motif.

More than the actual work, Totengco remembers going with Locsin and Romero to buy greens from the farmer’s market and sharing a salad under a comfortable midday sun. The day lacked the frenetic pace that creatives in fashion are so used to, but it didn’t make a difference in the designer’s desired results. “I was so happy when I saw the pictures because they’re exactly what I wanted,” he says. “Her hair’s blown in the wind, and she’s just there in the sun… I don’t know, [they’re] exactly how that day felt.”

BERNA Half Moon Clutch in lime green embroidered with lemons.

In thinking of this collection, Totengco had meditated on his moments of peace spent in nature, wishing the same for the Rafé New York woman “whether it’s just for the weekend, for the evening, [or] even if you’re stuck at home.” Everyone needs solace between all the noise. “I think, more than ever, everyone’s looking for an escape,” he says. “We’re all dreaming of getting away. So even if you can’t go somewhere like the North Fork, I think, just visually, we want to be transported.”

Can I tell you...about what I've been doing in confinement.

Rafe Totengco

Wearing our home-made masks given by our friend who lives nearby.

Wearing our home-made masks given by our friend who lives nearby.


Last week, James Ong, Editor in Chief of Mabuhay Magazine asked me to share what I’ve been doing in confinement. Below is the interview:

Each day of the week, we check in on a friend of Mabuhay and ask them to share their social-distancing experience. Today, we chat with New York-based bag designer Rafe New York, who has been rediscovering the joys of drawing and picking clam shells on the beach with his mom since they retreated to Long Island on March 13. “Being here these past few weeks has felt like an extended weekend. We can almost forget that there’s a pandemic happening – but only almost,” says Rafe, who is looking forward to “flattening the curve”, and when humanity finally trumps over Covid-19. Rafe also gives back to the community through the Tapulanga Foundation, which benefits farm communities in Silay City (Negros Occidental), and by donating a percentage of his bag sales to charity organization No Kid Hungry. When all this is over, Rafe looks forward to collaborating with the American businesswoman Aerin Lauder on a range of bags to be sold exclusively at her AERIN retail stores, where she sells everything from lamps to handbags. 

Away from the hustle and bustle of the city.

Away from the hustle and bustle of the city.

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐘𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠?
I’m currently staying in the North Fork of Long Island, which is about three hours away from Manhattan. We have been ensconced here since March 13 – before the situation in New York got so serious. 

𝐖𝐡𝐨’𝐬 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐲?
My partner, Mike, and my mom are with me. When we left the city, we thought we would be out here for a couple of weeks, but then the situation got worse in New York. It looks like we will be here until May and possibly even longer. 

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰?
The North Fork has been our escape from the hustle and bustle of Manhattan for several years now. It’s quieter than ever here, with traffic non-existent. The shops are all closed except for the local supermarket, pharmacy and a couple of restaurants that are doing take-outs only. 

Take out pizza from one of our favorite spots, 1943 Pizza Bar in Greenport.

Take out pizza from one of our favorite spots, 1943 Pizza Bar in Greenport.

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐮𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐬?
We drive to the local supermarket in Greenport village about 10 minutes away. Fortunately, this area isn’t as densely populated as the city so there are never any crowds in the supermarket or pharmacy. Most of the restaurants there have closed. A few have switched to take-out service, which we still order. They need our support now more than ever. 

Everyday my Mom and I take long walks on the beach.

Everyday my Mom and I take long walks on the beach.

Picking up scallop shells on the beach.

Picking up scallop shells on the beach.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐝𝐚𝐲?
We haven’t changed our internal clocks and are still up early in the morning. This gives our day a bit of structure. We used to take a walk to the local convenience store to buy coffee and the latest New York Times before breakfast. Sadly, it closed last week. In the afternoons, my mom and I go on another walk around the neighborhood and to the beach, where we pick clam shells. We rarely see anyone outside except for a few neighbors with whom we chat from a distance. Living close to nature has been a blessing. It has allowed us to isolate but not feel completely trapped indoors. I have also stayed in touch with friends all over the world via WhatsApp, Viber, WeChat, Facetime, Houseparty and Zoom. It has been so uplifting to see the faces of friends and family members. 

Drawing on my iPad.

Drawing on my iPad.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞?
I have always been drawing in my free time, but now I can start on more complex still-life studies on my iPad. This is probably the first time I’ve deviated from drawing handbags in 15 years! Stepping out of my comfort zone has been therapeutic. As far as physical fitness is concerned, I’m contemplating a 15-minute workout my sister just shared from Louisa Drake on Instagram. 

One my still life iPad drawings.

One my still life iPad drawings.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝-𝟏𝟗 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐬?
I have been craving the Szechuan sweet-and-spicy orange beef with Thai fried rice and sautéed baby bok choy from Chop-Shop in Chelsea. Fortunately, both my mom and my partner, Mike, cook excellent Pinoy food, which is a fantastic substitute. 

𝐀𝐧𝐲 𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐛𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐧 𝐟𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫?
Escaping reality through TV has been helpful. My mom and I have been watching an epic Chinese period drama series, The Story of Yanxi Palace, set in the Forbidden City during the 18th century. The sets and costumes are just fascinating. We have also been watching Kevin McCloud’s Grand Designs and Monty Don’s Gardeners’ World. These programs are inspiring and have allowed me to travel the world from my living room. If you need a good laugh, I highly recommend reruns of The Golden Girls. Another lockdown activity we’ve enjoyed is putting together puzzles – we just completed a challenging monotone piece that took us all week. 

This challenging puzzle required a group effort.

This challenging puzzle required a group effort.

This monotone puzzle took us all week.

This monotone puzzle took us all week.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐮𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐜 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟?
To be more thoughtful, vigilant and calm in the face of adversity. I have become more vigilant in observing precautions whenever possible. I don’t want to turn into a hypochondriac, but it’s better safe than sorry. Life is precious and too many lives have been lost to this pandemic. Getting through this unscathed is all that matters now. The world has changed and human interaction as we know it may never be the same again, but I hope we all find a positive way to move forward, and with love and compassion. 

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐝𝐨 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝-𝟏𝟗 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐫𝐞...
First, I would visit my sister in NoHo for a family dinner. It’s something we look forward to every weekend and now that we haven’t been able to have a meal together, we miss it more than ever. 

The second thing I would do is have dinner with a few close friends at one of our favorite restaurants, possibly Indochine. 

Finally, I would schedule our family trip that was postponed due to the outbreak. Hopefully it will be safe to travel again soon. My sister Tesa Totengco aka Travels with Tesa had planned an incredible itinerary in Morocco and we were all so excited to be together on this epic journey.

My outdoor studio.

My outdoor studio.

We often try to catch the sunset from this spot.

We often try to catch the sunset from this spot.